This is how you know if you're crushing on an emotionally unavailable guy

Finding a guy who looks and feels perfect physically, mentally and emotionally is a dream come true. And that dream, my friend, turns true for rarest of rare people. But then again, we're all too strong on our hope and there are people who tend to see some positives in all the negatives and make sense out of it.

These are the kind of people who don't see how emotionally unavailable a guy is even when all the signs point towards him being the toxic one emotionally. Yes, there are some signs that typically show how emotionally unavailable guys are while they look and sound completely normal and attractive.

So before you find yourself in this never ending pit hole, get yourself out of it and give yourself a better and healthy life with an emotionally stable guy. Because, girl, you deserve the world!

- Okay, first things first, this exceptionally attractive guy that you've been seeing since a while will do everything for you to keep crushing on him. He'll say all the right things, will spoil you, make you feel wanted and also do everything that he possibly can just to have all your attention to himself. But, has he ever spoken about a long term relationship with you? Or has he even reasonably close gotten to talk about a plan that's farther than a couple of months from now? He might get intimate in present tense and would want you to believe in everything that's happening NOW, but there's no plan for LATER. This is your cue to move out of it, as subtly as you can.

- Since you're crushing on the guy, you don't really see how inflexible they are. You always tend to bend extra or compromise on your plans only to make time for him. But think harder, does he do the same for you? If he keeps making silly excuses to avoid your change in plans, then you should know he's never going to prioritize you.

- Expressing how you feel for each other comes naturally if you two are really into each other. Sometimes, you just have to look into each other's eyes and know how beautiful you feel with this person. But ladies, if this cutie is holding back himself from expressing his emotions to you then it's him, not you and you should very much believe when he says exactly that.

- These emotionally unavailable guys get extra affectionate when they're drunk and the next morning they act like nothing ever happened and start distancing themselves from you. Of course, you feel overly loved when they say all sort of nice things to you under the influence of alcohol and you reciprocate the same way. But after each night comes a fresh morning when you're still the expressing one and he's not. This is when you know you gotta get out of it.

These are some of the signs that you pick only to know that you've been investing your time in the guy who's emotionally unavailable. Once you start noticing these, you'll start picking more signs and realise how you deserve so much better than this.