Here's what is hindering you from having good sex
| Dec 18, 2017, 12:20 IST
When it comes to what 'should' be done in the bedroom, many of us are getting it wrong and that might even play as a hazard to our health as also our sex-lives. And that is why today we're here to talk to you about why having good sex is actually healthy and we've even got you'll tips to get it right, now on. There is no easy explanation as to how to have good and healthy sex. So, let's get into the details.
Thanks to the effects porn has on us, we all have a 'goal' when it comes to sex. Porn tells us we should groan and moan and be rather aggressive, some magazines even tell us that we need to be having multiple orgasms. However, even having a goal might be distracting us from what’s going on and the pleasures we might otherwise enjoy. On the issue of 'lasting longer,' it pressures you into being so worried about lasting longer or giving your partner an orgasm that you are not truly enjoying the here and now: the touching, the caressing and kissing.
There is one simple way to challenge yourself to attain your sexual goals. Ask yourself questions like: Do you want an orgasm or two? Or is it about lasting longer in the bedroom? What about intimacy, connection, bonding and fun? Wouldn't those things change how you're feeling? So, let's conclude that 'having good sex' is about two individuals and what they want out of it. Question yourselves the next time and make sure to distract from the goal by actually enjoying everything that happens in between.
Thanks to the effects porn has on us, we all have a 'goal' when it comes to sex. Porn tells us we should groan and moan and be rather aggressive, some magazines even tell us that we need to be having multiple orgasms. However, even having a goal might be distracting us from what’s going on and the pleasures we might otherwise enjoy. On the issue of 'lasting longer,' it pressures you into being so worried about lasting longer or giving your partner an orgasm that you are not truly enjoying the here and now: the touching, the caressing and kissing.
There is one simple way to challenge yourself to attain your sexual goals. Ask yourself questions like: Do you want an orgasm or two? Or is it about lasting longer in the bedroom? What about intimacy, connection, bonding and fun? Wouldn't those things change how you're feeling? So, let's conclude that 'having good sex' is about two individuals and what they want out of it. Question yourselves the next time and make sure to distract from the goal by actually enjoying everything that happens in between.